My husband could have left. A lot of men do when intimacy dies. He didn't. He held my hand and said "we'll figure it out" even when I was convinced we wouldn't. I started these because I wanted to try one more thing before giving up completely. It's been two months and last week I reached for him first. For the first time in over a year I was the one who initiated. He looked at me like I'd given him the world. These gave me back something I thought was gone forever. For him, for me, for us.

you know that feeling when someone touches you and your whole body goes UGH instead of mmm? that was me for two years. every time my boyfriend tried to be affectionate I'd tense up. it wasn't him. it was me. my body just did not want to be touched by anyone. been on these about a month and last weekend he put his hand on my back and I... liked it? I leaned into it instead of away from it. that shift is everything. EVERYTHING.

Okay the weirdest thing happened. I've been taking these for about 6 weeks and yesterday I caught myself daydreaming. Like DAYDREAMING daydreaming. About my husband. At work. In the middle of a meeting. I haven't had a thought like that in probably two years. I almost laughed out loud. I texted him after and said "I was thinking about you" and he replied "...who is this" 😂😂😂 we're laughing again. we're flirting again. worth every penny

This is going to sound dramatic but I genuinely didn't recognize myself anymore. I used to be funny, spontaneous, up for anything. Then somewhere around 42 it's like someone replaced me with a tired, irritable version of myself. I told my sister I felt like a stranger in my own body and she sent me these. I'm about six weeks in and I feel like I'm coming back. Not all the way, not overnight, but I laughed so hard at something my daughter said last week that I snorted. My husband looked at me like he'd seen a ghost. The good kind.

Nobody told me that after my full hysterectomy I would lose every ounce of desire I ever had. It was like a switch that just turned off and I didn't know how to find it again. Five years of nothing. I started these not expecting much because honestly I'd given up. Around day 15 I had more energy. By week three I was sleeping better. And then one morning I woke up and actually felt something when my partner kissed me goodbye. I sat in my car and cried in the driveway. It's been two months and I feel like there's a pilot light on again.

Menopause didn't just take my desire. It took my confidence. I gained weight around my middle, my skin changed, I just felt invisible. Frumpy. Old. I stopped trying. These didn't magically make me a supermodel but something shifted on the inside. I started caring again. About how I looked, about getting ready, about feeling attractive. I bought a dress last month and wore it to dinner. My husband stared at me like it was our first date. Feeling good about yourself changes everything.

Sex had become something I endured, not enjoyed. It felt like a chore and I hated that because I love my partner. About six weeks into taking these I was watching TV and caught myself looking at him. Actually looking at him. That spark. That pull. I leaned over and kissed him and the shock on his face was almost funny. It's not every day, it's not like being 25, but it's real and it's mine and I thought I'd never feel it again.

POST MENOPAUSAL. 58. Was convinced nothing would work for me at this point. My sister (who is 54) started taking these and called me after a month and said "Yolanda I swear to God something is happening." So I tried. It took me longer than her, probably closer to 6 weeks, but she was right. I feel warmer. More alive. Not just the desire thing (though yes, that too, finally) but like my whole system woke up a little. I didn't think that was possible at my age

ok so I was VERY skeptical. like embarrassingly skeptical. I told my best friend it was probably just expensive candy. but she kept pushing me to try and I finally caved. it's been about 3 weeks and??? my husband asked me what changed because I've been in a better mood and actually wanting to cuddle at night. idk if it's placebo or what but something is different and I'm not questioning it

43, two kids, on antidepressants that murdered my sex drive. My doctor said that's "just a side effect you have to accept." No?? I don't?? Started these alongside my meds (asked my pharmacist first, she said the ingredients were fine). The desire isn't back to what it was before the SSRIs but it EXISTS again. That's the difference. It exists. I forgot what it felt like to actually want to be touched. Crying in this Target parking lot writing this review lol

I almost didn't write this because it's embarrassing but someone needs to hear it. I'm 47 and I've been faking it with my husband for over a year. Not just orgasms. Faking that I wanted to be there at all. Going through the motions so he wouldn't feel rejected while feeling absolutely nothing inside. It was lonely. So lonely. These gave me back something I can't even name. It's not just desire, it's like... caring? Wanting to connect? I stopped faking three weeks ago because I didn't need to anymore. He doesn't know I was faking and he never will. But I know. And I know it's real now.